Kara Dioguardi, a successful woman

I recently came across an interview on youtube, which have inspired me.

kara-dioguardiI wanted to share this interview with you and tell you why I like it so much.

Kara Dioguardi, is an American singer-songwriter, record producer, music publisher, A&R executive, composer. Many of you may remember her from American Idol, as one of the judges back in 2009 and 2010. She came out of nowhere and received a series of backlash and criticism while she was on the show. Nobody knew who she was and she constantly had to prove herself not only to the judges but to America. If she was introduced properly, maybe she could have avoided harsh criticism and judgment. But unfortunately she had a hard way to gain respect and recognition for her hard work while on the show. Ultimately, she found a way to fit in with the judges. She didn’t give up, she knew she was great. The greatness wasn’t just in her head, it was also in her previous work, which she did before becoming a judge on American Idol.

What I like about her in this interview with Howard Stern is that she doesn’t say a single negative word about anyone, even though Stern is trying to have her “shed some light” on certain situations and specific people. And indeed, all she does is shed light. She always has something positive to say about every person she worked with. She doesn’t blame anyone, even if the situations were unjust and troubling. At the end of the day she says, she learned a lot.

I am also amazed at how humble she is. How she never chased fame or recognition, even though she had a great voice and is an excellent song writer. She is a smart business woman, and she knows how good she is without bragging about it.

At the end of the interview she says, the best thing she did in her life was taking care of her dying mother for six years. Not too many people could do that, especially running around “chasing success.”

Here are some affirmations that I could extricate from the success story of this woman, which you could implement in your success motivation script for self-hypnosis:

I am positive and full of integrity

I aim for the right things in my life, those that are good for me and everyone around me

I respect myself , I respect my work

I am hard working

I succeed every day

I take responsibility for all of my actions

I connect with people and see good in all people

I am a professional

I face my fears

My actions speak my professionalism and integrity

Let me know what you like about Kara Dioguardi!


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Hypnosis for Success Motivation

Can or Can't Toggle Switch Committed to Solution AttitudeWhen I work with clients with procrastination problems and lacking success motivation, I often find that they are not sure about what they what they want, or they want too many things at the same time.

Other times they know what they want, but they simply feel overwhelmed and can’t get started. In some cases they know what they want, they have started their work but consciously get sidetracked, procrastinate and never finish. So they get more discouraged, feel like a failure and don’t know how to move forward.

Hypnosis can address all of these problems and pave the way to success. How?

There are four basic steps to any success: knowing your goals, planning your strategy, executing your plan and closing. You also have to have certain mental attributes, specific emotional and mental states, and personal qualities. Staying focused, clear, driven, determined, positive, punctual, going extra mile, persistent, being energetic, physically healthy – are examples of some of the key ingredients of success.

When I work with my success motivation clients I first spend some time helping them identify their goals. We talk about their one year, five year and ten year plan. I ask a client to describe the steps they would take toward their goals and how exactly they could be accomplished. We talk about what recourses they already have and which need to be acquired and how. There is absolutely nothing impossible. If there is a will, there is always a way.

Visualization of your goals allows the manifestation of those goals by showing your powerful and resourceful unconscious mind what it feels like to have your dreams achieved. You allow your mind to see and feel and maybe in some cases even hear the success of your dreams. This is like titillating your mind, exciting it by the powerful reality like imagery of your dreams. Be surprised how in a waking state you will be almost like on an autopilot, moving in the directions of your goals, feeling more motivated, inspired and energetic than ever.

I spend time with my clients writing their personal story of success, consisting of specific positive affirmations according to their goals. For instance, for a writer who needs focus and motivation to write a screenplay or a novel, I would give suggestions like “You are able to focus on writing the most intricate stories. It is easy for you to extricate stories out of your unconscious mind. All of your wisdom, knowledge and experience from your current or previous existence comes streaming right through you in the most unimaginable ways. You see your theme, your characters and narratives with great clarity.”

In a hypnotic state I guide my clients into a powerful visualization of their outcomes. After the visualization part of hypnosis session, I guide my clients into a deeper state of relaxation to program their minds with their personal positive affirmations for success.

Read my personal story of success and how goal setting, visualization and self-hypnosis helped me make my documentary film Zaritsas which was shown across the globe on RTVi in December of 2011.


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